When we found out that we were pregnant with our baby girl, my husband and I had just made an offer on our new house, where we knew the backyard was screaming for a swimming pool.  This was a surprise for us because we had tried to get pregnant for over 8 years.  We had gone to specialists and were diagnosed with infertility for unknown reasons.  We moved to a different state and had not found a fertility doctor to work with in our new state, and we were getting close to deciding that we would just be the best aunts and uncles in the world, rather than parents.   Now that we were pregnant, we knew the house would still be the perfect place to start our new family, but we questioned if we should still build a pool.  It was a large expense, and it would be a hazard for a new child.   Would we even have time to enjoy the pool with a new baby? It was always a dream of my husband's to have a pool, so we decided we would move forward with it and make sure that...